thank you – all this is great advise and d day is starting on Friday so will keep you all informed as to my next step. I worry that he isn’t going to tell me the truth with all the questions I have but as you both say go in non accusatory and hopefully I will get more out of him. I’m very scared though. On another note I went to see a solicitor about getting a post nuptial done and so that is yet another situation that has come about as a result of his addiction and I need to find out if he will sign it. Hope you are having a fab time in Spain, Faithnotfear and thank you for taking time out to reply xxx
