Don’t be thinking like that your better than that. I joined cocaine anonymous and do meetings. He needs to want to do it for himself.
All I can suggest to you and natasha now. And I don’t know your situations. Home wise, job wise ect.. But get your names on the council, explain your situation, keep applying for homes, flats ect.. Don’t tell your husbands, bf.. And do your best to save it. And soon as I get excepted or have enough money to rent saved. Leave and don’t look back.
And in the mean time see what help u can get for your situations off places like adfam ect.