Hiya curly girl hope your OK,
Reading this is just like how i use to be except for the alcohol each day.
1st off I am now clean of coke and alcohol for over 4 month now.
I used coke once a week to every few week. I just had enough I lost my gf and kids, it sent me suicidal for days, my friends have killed them self’s on coke. Its just horrible.
It’s a typical addict thinking. It’s the weekend, it’s Easter, it this and that. It’s his addict brain having him over. I very much he is on coke twice a month as well but I could be wrong. Having alcohol is a big trigger to get cocaine. And this is for most. So if he’s drinking each day I recon he is having it more. But I could be wrong.
He will only stop. If he admits he has a problem and he hits his rock bottom. You can’t force him to.
But he needs to get to some meetings, and work a 12 step programme or rehab. Doing the cocaine anonymous programme helps so much and addresses underlying issues. He’s just stuck In a bad way and needs belief. I just need to nip out so can’t explain the best I can now. Sorry