Hi kire
Faith and Ash have been incredibly helpful to me with their advice. I have just discovered my husband has been taking coke again – I think it is about the 6th time I’ve caught him and he has promised me that he wouldn’t do it again but he has never gone to a meeting so I would advise you and your husband to go – I have been to meetings but he doesn’t know about this yet – you can go to an open meeting if you are not the addict and they have also been really helpful to me. I was supposed to have the ‘big’ conversation last weekend but I chickened out as didn’t want to spoil the weekend with the talk which is crazy I know – hopefully it will happen this weekend. I have just been to hypnotherapy in order to become more confident and assertive and it was very surreal but has put me in a better frame of mind. I told the hypnotherapist everything. I had the absolute same as you in respect of a completely different person in my husband’s body. I so so hope that you both can sort it as I am trying at the moment and that we both become one of the success stories. Keep in touch on here – it really helps x