I think I would rather just get it out of the way but how do I set boundaries if I’m not confrontational and take the softly softly approach with no judgement – sorry to be a wet drip about this but it’s how I feel at the moment. I think your second paragraph says it all. A lot of it is about the lies, deceit, disrespect and nastiness that comes with coke. I do know that I can’t stay married if he carries on taking it both mentally and financially. Why should I subsidise and enable someone to do something that I disagree with – I’ll let you know tomorrow how things went and thank you again for all your support – it helps enormously xx
