Mine does/did this. I’m in massive debt and he still asks for money. Bills are now going unpaid. I sometimes don’t have money for food.
I’ve reached the point where I can no longer be part of it. I just want out. I don’t want to be dragged down with the sinking ship. He is not actively seeking to stop despite promising me many times he would. He blames me for him using or relapsing… it’s so ridiculous.
I would take time to figure out if your partner is going to try go stop or not. Also take time for yourself.