Re: opiates – maybe he is doing the thing mine had told me some people do, which is coke/crack for the high and heroin to mellow it out… there is a term for it but I can’t remember what it is.
The turning things back round on you sounds about right. It’s just a way of avoiding their own reality by blaming everyone else… when in fact it is no one else but their fault.
Mine is still fixated on me changing as apparently if I work on changing myself that would help. Haha. I just ignore it.
Are the drugs test so that he can see the children?