Thank you – and I’m sorry to hear in turn what you’re going through. Although it hurt a bit to read, but that’s because I recognize a couple of things in there that I didn’t mention myself. Starting strife or stress as a pretext to “de-stress” – he hasn’t copped to it but I suspect that’s exactly what happened last night.
Cleaning the house – yep, I got told off for wiping down the dinner table when his parents were coming over for Easter. Cause there was ket on it that could’ve been swept up into another line. Another thing that got brought up directly before “are you sure you don’t have any more money you could transfer me?”.
He insists it’s not bad and has been worse. I’ve no doubt it’s been worse, but it doesn’t mean it’s not bad now. He’s promised that we’ll have a full and frank conversation about his use, but he keeps putting it off “until tomorrow”. I don’t know how many more tomorrows I can hold out for.