Err – ‘I was thinking my kids hate you but I would never say this to you!!’ but he just said it, such random behaviour.
The problem is Debbie that you”ll always be wondering, always be dreading events, not wanting the weekend to come, not wanting anyone to invite him anywhere, the trust is disappearing. And he has to work on that with you, rather than act how he currently is.
Would he honestly do it at his mothers house with his son?? One place I knew i’d be safe would be my in laws, as he would NEVER have done it there.
I think you really know the answer to your own questions in your head, its just acting on what your head is telling you xx