So, here we are, no change. He continually asks or money for food/electricity/petrol to get to work and still lives with his girlfriend. A fortnight ago I told him I had had enough and could no longer fund him. He quickly ditched his girlfriend and said he was coming home to sort himself out. He stayed a couple of nights and I presume he has gone back to his girlfriend. He harasses me everyday for money, why do I fall for his lies? He needs new tyres for the car I bought so he could get to work !! Etc etc! He came back home, his Grandad (aged 95 is missing 700 pounds) and my purse has disappeared. I now have a text message (I froze my bank cards) saying an attempt to spend 265 pounds was declined yesterday. How on earth do I get out of his situation? I have threatened suicide and my Doctor has put me on medication. How do I get out of this mess?