[kstar25]

I agree you do need to put yourself first, seems like our partners have chosen themselves first for awhile now. I gotta get out of this savior role I’m stuck in and take care of myself. I think the best move I made is separating, during that time he went to more meetings, started back in counseling and worked on himself more than ever, almost takes him to be so afraid to lose everything to make a change. All that “work” has tapered off now, but not my concern.