wow debbie!!! he finally tested negative ????
what great news. and his general deneanor has lifted!
i really hope it stays this way and you make your holiday… the longer they stay clear of that stuff the better perspective they have of reality. maybe he can turn this around after all if he sees how enjoyable life can be without cocaine ruining everything.
on the weed… i confess i have smoked occasionally for over 30 years. BUT… i can take it or leave it. ive gone years without smoking but I’ll be honest i have used it for medicinal reasons a lot last year, a small amount in the evening to help me sleep – it’s gentler than the chemical stuff from the doc . however… it’s once again about the whole attitude around it. if you’re spoiling everyone’s lives around you then you have a problem. if you’re prioritising it over life.. a big problem. if you’re someone who struggles with addiction … you’re highly likely to develope a problem.
It’s not a stimulant like cocaine, therefore you don’t necessarily have the extreme irritability… however heavily usage definitely will lead to mood swings and the modern weed varieties are sometimes pretty strong.
Do be mindful. But I’m so glad he finally came back negative xx