Debbie that’s fabulous that you’ve finally turned a corner. My hubby is now 9 months clean from drugs 4 months from smoking but unfortunately still drinks. Thos is very much his new issue . He’s paranoid when drunk thinks people are after him going to kill him and that I know who they are. Just two days ago he said he didn’t love me anymore and we should part. I didn’t respond as it ends up heated . I kinda take the shit. We are due to go away in June for his 50th and he says he’ll leave after that . I call bull on this as I’d spoke to him about his drink. And this is his retaliation. He wants me to scream at him and throw him out . I’ve refused as I know the pattern he tells his family I’m mad and that it’s my fault so he feels better he didn’t do it. I probably should but when he says under his breath thinking I can’t hear that no one live hi. And he doesn’t live him so how can others. ( oh he also reckons hes not got me issues)
