Thank you so much for replying. My problem is, we have a 1 and 2 year old, and he is getting us into thousands and thousands worth of debt….£15k so far. Where does it end? He’s preventing us as a family moving forward, because we have SO MUCH DEBT.
He’s actually had his first meeting right now, he says he wants to get better but I just found out he got a quick loan for £1500 yday and has already spent £500 on coke and did it all last night. But he acts normal, is like it doesn’t affect him anymore. I just dunno how much more debt and lies I’m ‘supposed’ to put up with before I leave.
When your husband relapses, how long is it for? Is it a random night doing it? Or does he hide it for ages and wrack up a load of loans? My husband is the latter so I’m going to have to leave soon if he doesn’t change. I so desperately want my kids to grow up with us all under the same household ????