Hi mate…
He needs to want to stop. If he doesn’t want to , well you can not help this man unfortunately. First step is admitting to it and second step is wanting to stop. No body else can do it for him including you. You can try and try. But it’s a very hard one to do. I tried for a ex partner and wasn’t really ready to stop my doc. And I relapsed.
If he ain’t ready to stop. Then maybe leaving could be on the cards. Obviously kids make that choice harder. But think like this. Would you like to see on of your boys in this sitch. No is the answer. I know it is..
Think hard but if he don’t want to stop for you n the boys. Then it’s surly time for you n your boys to go. Yep Gona be hard mate. But time will heal that pain of separation. And if the fella does realise what he has last. Witch I hope he would, he would fix him self up to get his family back…
Hope all’s get better for you in the end mate..