He’s mean to a lesser extent without me saying anything. And annoying. He repeats the same normal sentence 5 times, no joke, and then when I tell him he has said that already, he goes “Yeah, but” and then repeats it again. His eyes go in twenty different directions, his words slur, and he can barely walk. So when I tell him that’s enough, that’s when things ultimately go bad.
I came home the other day from a paint class, and he surprised me by being wasted, and the first thing he does is laugh at my painting. He just becomes this mean other person.
When he is sober, he says that he doesn’t mean any of the things he says while drunk, but then where do they come from? I’m the “fucking bitch” that fights him as I pour his alcohol down the drain. I’m the problem for freaking out because he was doing nothing but having a good time.
Im glad you “snitched”. Too bad he can’t take money from them anymore…boohoo. Are they supportive in any way? I mean, them stopping giving them money is supportive in itself.
My guy’s family definitely drinks too much. And they dont address issues ever. They ignore things. I reached out to his mom the other night bc I was afraid and clueless on what to do. She never answered me. She told him the next day that she wants me to stop texting her our business. I cried for him after he said that. I said that I’m sorry I reached out to the woman that birthed you, someone I thought would care about your wellbeing. I reached out to her not to tattle. I wanted her to care about helping her son. Instead, her response was to ignore me and tell him she wants me to leave her out of it. He has no support other than me, apparently.