Mine also blames me for ruining his high. He disappears off into the bathroom or toilet for so long and I naturally ask ‘are you okay?’ and apparently that immediately ruins his high.
They are so selfish. What about how their actions affect us? I end up living in my bedroom trying to avoid him… he spends his time bossing me about and trying to order food from me in the middle of the night because his body clock and meal times are all messed up and he’s too lazy to prepare his own food.
Talking about flushing… so I am, unintentionally, really good at accidentally finding his stash and chucking it away. I mean like the last week I’ve done it twice by mistake. I didn’t even know I’d done it until he got back and went to use it and found I’d chucked it away in such a way as to be irretrievable… this is one reason we cannot live together.
I don’t want to spend my time wondering if I’m chucking his stuff or if I can’t touch something or clean something etc. It’s like treading on eggshells. Can’t wait to be free.