sorry to hear this FNF – I too am seeing the same sort of behaviour from my husband – not so much the paranoia but self centreness and argumentative and belittling but I’m not sure if he has taken the drugs unfortunately. I’m sort of scared to ask him as he will twist it round to me being annoying etc. I’m kind of hanging on to see if our holiday goes well and will take it from there. Its like he resents me for everything I do even the clothes I have bought him for holiday – it’s not thank you it’s ‘for god sake why spend that much on a jacket when I can get it from Amazon (obviously not the same quality!) – I don’t know why I bother sometimes but love to give things and maybe that’s just not the right thing to do?
Hi Notmyrealname – not sure welcome is the right terminology to use and glad he seems to be going in the right direction. Long may it continue. I have found it really helpful being on here – it’s from people that completely understand what you have been going through not just friends and family who just tell you to leave but don’t understand the web that you are caught up in.
xx