Oh Debbie, I’m so sad to read this.
I mean, his response in the end is plausible, but all this does is (if that is what happened) is confirm he does not have the willpower to say no thanks, I’m clean.
So, now you will worry if he encounters any stress at work, or if he is tired from riding his bike…. as well as going to the pub.
I’m not about to tell you what to do, but I dont think he has enough respect of what this is doing to you to quit for you, the promises he’s made are now empty.
I assume you went home in the end yesterday as I’m late replying. I hope you are ok xx