Hey I am sorry that you are in this position. It is truly heartbreaking. There’s absolutely nothing you can do to bring your wife to her senses, except do not tolerate this for one moment more, set boundaries and stick to them. Few of us do this. It’s hard, but it’s the only way if there’s to be any hope at all. Look after yourself, look after the children, hers as well as yours if you can. Ask her to get treatment and hope that she does. She’s got to admit there’s a problem before anything else can be done. It takes a lot to do that and it’s a hill to climb. It sounds like she’s got a lot of stuff to work through. Wishing you all the best of luck.
