Thanks Ash. Yes ok – yesterday was horrendous. Silent treatment all day and anger because I had accused him and he said he hadn’t – while I was out he did a test and it was left for me to see and it was negative. Did one this morning and also negative so a bit confused. He was so angry with me saying that I had embarrassed him in front of my daughter and her boyfriend which I hadn’t done. I had got a bit upset the night before about my father who is being abandoned by my step mother and being put in a home. He wrongly assumed I was getting upset because of him. We had gone out with my family on Thursday night and last night he said that he hadn’t wanted to go out with my ‘spastic’ family – so incredibly rude and spiteful. Today he is fine – so weird. I really don’t think I can put up with this nastiness for much longer so when we get back and he starts again or tests positive I am going to have to have a massive rethink about what I want in my life. Think he is a narcissist?? x