Hey Debbie, it’s no problem at all honestly we’re all sadly in the same boat and it’s a living nightmare isn’t it! I can’t agree more with what Waltonfam has said she is spot on! It’s typical addict behaviours finding us or normal things boring the only thing that excites them is drugs sadly and what a miserable life that is. They are impossible to talk to or get close to they push all help support advice away and it’s so draining for us as the fixers and partners losing ourselves to fix them. We really do have to say is it worth it? They won’t be who they were before without getting clean and a lot of self reflection. If they could see clearly they would be so shocked at how they have treated us! I really think unfortunately with some all the support in the world doesn’t help just enables them as they don’t need to change when they have it all there. I do hope for you that these two weeks go smoothly because above all else you need some time out and a lovely break! Take it easy and day by day try not to look to far ahead & also backwards too thinking of who they were as it just upsets us more not them. Sending love x
