Hi all, I’ve been reading through some of the comments here but there are just so many. My life has been turned upside down with the revelation from my husband that he has been doing cocaine for the past 1.5 years not daily but quite regularly. He said it had started to spiral out of control recently which I found out about when a letter from the bank was received to say the mortgage payment didn’t come out. I questioned him and he came clean. Basically we both keep some money in our own accounts, he pays the mortgage, I pay the other bills then he sends money to me for the savings account but the amounts he have sent me have been quite low the past year or so. He said the past couple months he has been living in agony with funds going low in his bank with the cocaine and days off work unpaid due to holidays etc, I just wish he had of told me instead of lying to me. There have been many occasions where he has come home seeming off but said he wasn’t drinking or on anything but now I know it was cocaine.
I’m just so annoyed at the fact he has lied to me I don’t know if I can get past this. He says that’s it he’s done and also doesn’t want to drink anymore either as he is terrified at us breaking up but I just can’t be sure he will tell me the truth. He always lied about stupid things and knows I think lying is the worst thing in a relationship. I don’t know much about cocaine addiction to be honest so I don’t know what hes saying is true or not. He really has come clean about it all and is determined never to take it again, he said he knows he can do it and its been a week and a half now already. Is there ever a happy ending in this?