Hi I only recently found out about my husbands addiction and it has floored me. I can’t stop thinking about how much he has lied to me over the years when I questioned why he was acting strange. Now he tells me that yes he was on cocaine then even though he kept lying to my face saying there was nothing wrong with him. It’s been nearly 2 weeks now and I do believe he hasn’t taken anything as he says he has hit rock bottom and will never touch it again. Im going to buy drug tests online and randomly surprise him to see if he’s keeping his word because if he lied so well before then how do I distinguish the lies now?
How has your relationship been now, maybe I should go back and read your story. I see you say he isn’t ready to admit he has a problem. Did he say how often he takes it and how much?