Oh Debbie i totally relate to everything you’ve just said it’s like banging your head against a brick wall isn’t it! They don’t give you answers they are so blasé about it all like it’s not an issue and we are the crazy ones worrying about their health finances our future and so on. They are so laid back about it all you feel like you just want to shake or smack them sorry but it really annoys me! They don’t realise how lucky they are to have us and take everything for granted & most likely don’t realise until they are on their own or we’ve walked away and even then they may not change. As much as this place really helps me, it can be quite daunting at times when your trying to hang onto hope to see so many stories that have no light at the end of the tunnel also seeing the new ladies who like us have just discovered they have an addict for a partner and endlessly search the web until they find this forum. It’s awful, and I hope you’re okay maybe you need a break for abit from him no big decisions just yet may do your mental health some good. Just a thought sending love x
