Hiya gerorgia hope your OK, I’m 6 month clean now from coke. The best clean time I’ve got in 12 year of using. I joined cocaine anonymous and do the meetings and it’s the beta thing I ever did.
Your partner saying mixing with other addicts would influence is rubbish really, because he’s getting influenced anyway with out them, as he is still using. The other addicts are what he needs for support and to ring each day. This is major in keeping clean in talking to other addicts who can support you. Regarding it was negative, it’s not all sunshine and roses, so he should know its about feeling the power and pain from the shares and what’s its like if we relapse ect.. The pain we caused to family ect.. And it reminds us what is waiting for us if we use again.
I just think he needs to keep trying and not give up, and ignore what his head is telling him negative.
6 days away also on coke while u and his daughter are at home, ain’t good at all. And other than C. A there is just rehab left.
It’s OK for people to say stick with him, but they are not in your position, if you do stay with him, make sure he puts the effort in, give him set rules, no staying out ect.. No drinking, and my opinion is to go meetings and get a sponsor and work the 12 steps.
Hand on heart he will keep relapsing if he does not work a programme or rehab.
He needs to cut everyone off, maybe change his number, and the main thing is he really needs to want it. Hope this helps.