You’ve got to put yourself first and do what you need to do to make sure you’re ok, depressing to think of the rest of our lives being more of the same that’s for sure. It doesn’t sound like your husband wants to change? Mine says he does sometimes and has temporarily but he doesn’t actually make any changes just hides away from everyone then as soon as he gets offered any it’s back to square one. Can’t believe he said nothing when you said about a divorce! Do you think it sunk in? You’d think they’d grow out of it by 45/50 but doesn’t seem to work like that x
