Hi – would totally agree and run a mile as harsh as that sounds – exactly the same happened to me and things went from bad to worse when I was pregnant after previously seeming (relatively) ok – he started taking more and more coke and disappearing/lying throughout my pregnancy – so stressful. Later I found out he had a lifelong drug problem which no one mentioned. Gave him another chance and 3 years later, we’ve had some good times but ended up back to square one. He has a really strong bond with our son which is amazing but I’ve now got to deal with the guilt of making him homeless as he’s out of control again and explaining to our son why daddy’s not here anymore, even typing that I just don’t know how I’m going to do it as feel terrible but just can’t cope any more. Good luck with whatever you decide, the most important things are you and the baby and you should be spending this time excited and making plans not stressing xxx
