This is amazing!! James you are absolutely awesome!! I’m really sorry to read everything that you have been through but you must be so so proud of yourself for your outlook now.
My husband is very much in denial, I have caught him out more times than I can write.. but I am coming to you for advice with a heavy heart. He’s left me… I found a text on his phone asking for some on Friday night.. I found it… cried!! And cried and cried. He’s turned around to me just today and said it’s not working and it’s the marriage that’s the problem… not the drug taking, the betrayal, the lies???. But the marriage?? He’s toddled off to his mums and left me and his three children… no second thought apart from he’s better off without me.
I’m absolutely destroyed!! I have genuinely never done anything but love that man, I’ve given him 12 years of my life and he’s just gone? Our marriage hasn’t been perfect but it’s pretty damn close to it!! From the outside we are the picture perfect family, two amazing careers, beautiful home, 3 fantastic children and a dog!! How can he leave all of this??? The worst part.. how can he leave all this and make me out to be the problem. He’s actually happy he’s left!! What the ….. !!!!
Im sorry if this is all jumbled and doesn’t make sense, my brain is absolutely mush!!