Telling the kids was absolutely dreadful, I just kept it simple and said that we both love them and it’s for the best that daddy lives at nanas for now.
Do you both feel like me? Like your emotions completely rely on theirs? So when he’s up it’s great!! When he’s down I feel it.. when he’s sad I feel it… but my emotions never come into play.
Luckily people have been supportive, they all know what he’s like.. but their support makes me push away from them if that makes sense? I don’t want to hear how bad he is, how he’s this and that. He’s my husband!! I love him with all my heart!!
I’m exactly where you are fazey right now… I wish I didn’t find the text and I wish I was more able to be supportive. I wish I didn’t feel so bad about it and I was able to turn a blind eye… I’m not sure what’s worse… living with it or living without him ???? xxxx