Stay strong bellapop, I can tell you’re a strong person and you will get through this with or without him xxx I’ve got the same thoughts and questions running through my head. I think we have both done the right thing though and I really hope that they both make some better choices over the next few days/weeks for the sake of everyone – it’s out of our hands now that’s the scariest thing isn’t it. What do you do when they’re gone and you’ve spent your whole life worrying about them, doing things for them, checking up on them? I think it’s called codependency I haven’t read about it but I might Google it later. You can do this bellapop and please don’t think you haven’t been supportive, there’s only so much you can do without it impacting on you and the kids – you’re not running a drug rehab centre you’re human and you have done your best in a horrible situation xxxx
