Hello Razy88,
Welcome to the club that none of us can stand being in. I’m so sorry that you’re dealing with this, especially with two such small babies!!
It’s so difficult that he has such a good thing having the space at his sisters (the same as my husband with his family) as it doesn’t really give them the short sharp shock they need. I also understand the ‘nagging’ it’s absolutely vile isn’t it!! I know he’s her brother but she should be giving him a bit of a reality check… telling him to sort his head out for his little family.
I also get the literal ache to be with them (hence why I gave in yet again) it’s absolutely impossible at times and especially for you as I’m sure your hormones are aching for your family unit. It’s absolutely so unfair!!!
I’m really trying to give my hubby a focus ag the minute, He likes to go to the gym so I’m asking him to take me under his wing and help me to get fitter. We both are 100% sure that he has (undiagnosed) ADHD, and always has had struggles. So I’m giving him this focus… probably it will take his mind off things short term… but I’m just going day by day. It’s honestly exhausting and petrifying. It’s all a bit much isn’t it?
I hope that you’re all okay this evening, I’m thinking of you all xxxx