Hi ladies, and hi rayzy, I typed a post yesterday but I got distracted with the kids and didn’t send it but it basically said everything bellapop had said! Have you heard from him at all?? Very frustrating when their own family don’t see the problem, I have the same with my partner’s son, he just doesn’t seem to get how serious it is but I suppose he’s been dealing with it his whole life so not really his responsibility….
That all sounds really positive bellapop I’ve got everything crossed for you both xxx do you think he could get a diagnosis for adhd and get some meds?? I know of quite a few people where this has made a massive difference as they don’t need to self medicate?
I don’t really have much of an update except still no contact. I’m having to put it out of my mind as things are so full on with work and the kids etc but I’ve got time off over the summer holidays so I think it will hit me then. The crack isn’t a new thing but it’s been a couple of years since he did it to my knowledge, not since our son was a baby and it didn’t end well that time at all as he got sectioned. I’m just bracing myself for whatever’s next…to be honest it’s so awful I just can’t think about it. Life goes on the doesn’t it and when you have kids you just have to get on with it which is a good thing I think.
Hoping you both have a good stress free day xxxx