Couldn’t agree more purpleheart if I’d known at the beginning what I know now I’d have steered clear. The odd thing is though is the rest of his siblings are very respectable and had no idea about any of it. I haven’t even been able to tell any of my family what is going on or the real reason as to why he isn’t a constant in out home as they would never understand as it just has never been a thing in my family well not until now. I mean my family aren’t angels my dad was an alcoholic and so was my grandad but they were both kicked to the kerb when the children (me included) were little and had minimal contact so it’s all just a complete bizarre thing for me for people to be so accepting of it as the norm especially when there are young children involved xx
