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Thank you so much for your kind words. It did come out of the blue – there had been no lead up with him saying about being unhappy, it’s just been some sort of lightning bolt realisation that I am not the one for him. I’ve also now discovered he had developed feelings for a colleague at work, which seems to have been a catalyst for it all. Again, a total shock and so hurtful I can’t express it in words. He’s a couple of years into being sober although he’s been in and out of recovery for about six now.