It’s called denile!!!!
I actually thought we were doing ok this wk in regards to be accepting him and just listening.
His episode last wk now has social services calling telling me I have to inform my ex!
We talked deeply last night as he was drinking and opening up. Had an understanding eve then this morning he said he needs to decide what he’s doing in regards to staying or moving out.
Because I have got upset and said why am I bothering going through all of this if u still are thinking like that he’s angry and telling me I’m abusive getting in his head.
He’s told my kids he’s cooking a roast and now told me do it myself!
Even made a point if he pays rent yet I still ask him to grab stuff from the shop!
This roast has cost another £18 today on top of my £150 food shop as we went and grabbed all he wanted and I felt I had to pay.
He’s made a point I can buy trainers
Wtf
He spends on alcohol daily and take always and I’m meant to feel bad
The abuse is on me and how he can say I abuse him hurts so bad