Ye same here, its like our lives don’t count. I get the attitude from him that I have to just suck it up as ‘he’s not hurting anyone’. I think of myself and think it would be like me getting drunk every night and my kids and him would have to sit there watching, I could never do that to someone.
I’m sorry to hear its 11 weeks in a row, I hate that feeling of dread knowing its another day of drinking. Does he stop then for periods of time? I asked mine to move out after a horrendous few months of emotionally abusive behaviour and drinking and he’s blanked me and instead stayed in the bedroom for 2 days then not drank for 3 days and doing housework. It’s always on a cycle like this and actually makes me angry that he stops and starts when he wants. The longest is a week