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That’s crazy, I honestly thought I was the only one. Ye it’s what makes it hard to leave because you see the ‘good side’ I’ve been reading up on the cycle of abuse and it relates to this. Even if you don’t feel abused, it may help you make sense of things. He’s totally acted like I didn’t say to leave and is being overly nice like I said and doing more with the kids etc as normal. This is when I usually relent and then he’s drinking within days but I need to say again tomorrow, makes me cringe to even tell him