It’s hard to think straight when they are being so irrational I find but I said the same, it obviously wasn’t working living here either as he was still doing it – I guess he would probably do a lot less if he was here and maybe have bigger gaps of being clean but it’s not really sorting out the underlying issues, just taking the easy option of putting the responsibility into us. I just can’t risk another relapse while he’s living here, especially with kids. I actually think if he sobered up for long enough then he wouldn’t even be saying he should come back so the fact he’s still talking about it makes me realise he is definitely not thinking straight… so sad though isn’t it. He just can’t stop taking it now and I don’t know how it’s going to end… I’m trying to get him into a detox place so maybe that will help.
Sounds like we are both at the same point with them! How do you feel day to day? Is he in touch?