Thank you soo much for sharing .
Im pretty much on the same scale as you .
My husband has cut down massive and has started spending more time at home with family and that’s mainly because i did put my foot down and i left him .
When we got back i told him straight im not putting up with his shit and il even help him come off the drugs and alcohol.
So we started small by him taking a little and occasionally only .
He stays home so i know what is going on .
We have a baby together and i make sure he is around to help out and keep his mind off drugs and alcohol.
He hasn’t come off drugs fully yet but he has cut down.
I too suffer from mental health problems obviously due to his negativity in my life .
I’ve learnt to cope with it over the years but if it gets worse im ready to leave him .