Hi Navy, sorry to hear about your situation, I know exactly how you feel and sometimes it’s just easier not to bring it up cos you know there will be a big argument and mine would always lie anyway so it was pointless…. I think the lies are the worst bit really as eventually there is no trust left even though you know it’s the addiction making them do it it gets hard to separate the two – I get told he doesn’t like it when I tell him I’m upset or ‘have a go at him’ as he says it doesn’t help – well it might not help him but actually not all about them is it and we’re only human and entitled to be upset when we are treated badly, hope you’re ok and things have settled down a bit xx
