Hi Bellapop, so sorry he is acting like this, know exactly what it’s like – it’s awful having an atmosphere like that at home. I was thinking the same as purpleheart – are you sure he hasn’t been secretly either drinking or on the coke?? When I tested I found he was pretty much constantly positive despite denying doing anything and also subsequently found lots of empty bottles hidden away. Either way though it’s not acceptable to make your life a misery like this. Sending hugs and hoping he gets his act together…
Hope things are going ok purpleheart – I guess it will be a long process for you but sure it will be worth it in the end when you can have some peace
Hi Vivvie, totally agree with everything you said about it needing to come from them – waiting for my partner (or maybe ex who knows) to manage to do that. It’s hard not to help someone and I guess a lot harder when it’s your family so I wouldn’t beat yourself up over helping your brother – it’s human nature at the end of the day and we can only do our best
Xx