He says he would never allow my son to find out and wanted to keep the door to his office locked but I put a stop to that.
He says he would hate for my son to go down that path.
But then why can’t he see how wrong it is to do it in the house where he lives?
Never mind the consequence for me. If his Dad found out I would have to admit that I had allowed it. Its unacceptable of him to do it and unacceptable of me to allow it.
The other problem is he doesn’t want to do it on the streets. He stays home and sits in his room having time to do things he normally is too tired for. E.g. building a drone. He’s pleasant and almost more loving on it. Although he’s very annoying as he never stops talking, but he’s almost nicer.
But in-between times he never gets out of bed. He has no desire to do things with me as a couple, no interest in normal things – that’s not new btw he’s always been like that. For him its an escape from the boredom and stress of everyday life.
I understand all that I really do. But I simply can’t accept it because it is illegal and highly addictive.