I agree with Kulstar, you have done nothing wrong, he has chosen someone who will allow his addiction, and addicts will always choose the drug of choice over everything and everyone. I am also at a crossroads with my brother, I have set boundaries to look after myself but I am struggling to overcome the anger I feel having spent fifty years looking after somebody who is now really lost to me. You now have a chance to think about what you want for yourself and your daughter.
