Thankyou lovely, ye I’m at the drinking part atm where when sober ill talk to him and he seems to understand then when drunk he throws it in my face what I’ve said to him. E.g I’ll say it’s not a normal lifestyle he seems to agree then after the drink he’ll shout so I’m not normal am I then argue about it and say I’m the one who got mental health issues and need sorting out, that I’m nit picking etc honestly this life is not happy. My little one cried last night saying he just wants a life with no shouting so I’m going to yet again message my partner today and tell him he really does have to move out. It’s severely affected both my children. Please get out now before the baby’s born, I promise you you’ll be happy and content and have more control over the way your child’s brought up. Talk to me anytime hope your OK x