I’m glad you have and it’s the right mindset to have, hoping he stops drinking so he doesn’t die rather than hoping it’s so you can get back together as honestly I made this mistake. We split up a few years ago for a year, I took him back because he was hinting at wanting to end his life. I said come back home, we’ll sort it out. Looking back it was me doing the talking. His drinking was worse than ever. I would love him to move out but he refuses to go, has nowhere to go. I thought he had hit rock bottom, really the lowest he can go, quit for a month finally thought we’d be good but no he’s just the same. Thanks, I’ll have a look at that website. Stay strong, your doing so well. I hope he does change so he can be the best version of himself for your baby