I have told him, if he wants that life then leave, but he doesn’t says he wants us and will work getting sorted. Will last a few months, then stress of lift brings it all back.
That’s the worse that they just dismiss everything we feel or think yet I have to accept what he has done and understand why, but he doesn’t see what he is doing is hurting not just me but everyone around him.
I really want to believe he is telling the truth and really wants to change but I have heard it all before so I have little faith now.
Your never overreacting, especially when it comes to feelings and emotions. Its hard to watch someone you love self destruct and all you want is for them to be happy and healthy it gets very frustrating and we express that probably the wrong way sometime but we don’t mean harm by that