I have been reading all of the posts above and I wish I could have my husband back the man I married we have been together 20 years and have 3 amazing children he is gripped by drugs , smoking green and cocaine and I don’t know if there is anything else .
I found him in a girls flat 5 weeks ago who does the same , he behaves like a complete narcissist and never used to be like this . I thought he had cancer or was mentally unwell but now I know it’s the drugs I would do anything to help him too and love him so so much
Please can anyone help me I am in despair and just can’t see what else I can do to help him
He is now at his mothers and stays there some nights and weekends I don’t know , he hasn’t seen his children for 5 weeks and hardly gives us money , I know I will need to divorce him if he doesn’t change or see the light
He stopped drinking 18 years ago so I know he can do it but since his father died and since the lock down this has all gotten worse .
James I wish I could get you to speak to him but all I can do is hope and pray he gets better . Our children are 13,16 and 19 and they need him
Any advice would be amazing and sorry I am no help to anyone just now x