@bluestar I hope you move on from this, you absolutely deserve to be happy. It sounds like you’ve given him more than enough love and support. You can’t do any more than that.
@emma Wow. I’m so sorry you had to go through all that but absolutely over the moon to hear you have moved on and that you are very happy now. A lot of what you have written has given me a lot to think about. I recognise a lot of these behaviours especially turning the emotional abuse around to be me the instigator. Thank you for sharing.