Hi All,
Been on this forum before.My son is nów in his 40’s. 42 to be exact. He has complex history of drug misuse, mental health, physical health difficutlties and learning difficulties.
His biggest difficulties is drugs. DHCodiene and valium. He has been clean for most part since 2019 but has dabbled and stopped dabbled and stopped.
He completely relapsed in March 2022 for 12 weeks and stopped again. But sadly drugs are now creeping back into daily life.
He refuses to go to meetings and in my view is terrified to go to the Recovery Cafe.
He only has ME…his mum. I am getting tired really tired of it to be honest. He just gets stuck in a rut. Buys drugs and sits out of face in his rooms. No friends, No gf.
I know its up to him, but I really hate the way he looks and talks when he is on drugs…I hate the neighbours seeing him now.
I was so angry tonight that I had to get away from him. (He lives with me and has a legal right to live here.
Its hard to affect change……I am starting to give up on him. Never thought I ever say that but its been a shit day.
Q-Can someone go to a Recovery Cafe if/when their drugs use is going in the wrong direction again. Or do they need to be clean?
Can some please enlighting me as what’s so difficult to mix with others in recovery/like minded people?
Can someone relate to my rather” down in the dumps” post tonight pls